Friend or Foe?
Seriously, is it ok to just drop someone out of the blue?
I have been asking myself this question for about 3 weeks now.....why b.c my so called best friend seemed to get bored one day and make up some petty excuse to not hang out anymore. Its sad really.
So let me ask you this?
Am I totally missing something or is this not the most ridic excuse to be mad.
Not seeing a certain movie with them, even though I invinted her and she declined because she had other plans? Is this My problem or hers?
So confused. It normally wouldnt bother me b.c hey if someone doesnt want to be friends with me over something so petty then thats fine. I dont need the drama nor do i need the bullshit. But I have been friends with this person for almost 21 years now. so its just sad to me that she would just want to throw it all away and be selfish and SO RIDIC!
So I am asking you all...am I being insensitive? Should i have waited to see the movie with her and base my life around her and her plans! Should I even care at this point? I feel I did nothing wrong?
Im not one to deal with bullshit or Drama...I tend to stay far away from it. so this is just a pissing me off. I just feel like treating a friend this way is beyond me. A friend is someone who you depend on...you shouldnt have to depend on them to screw you. All advice is welcome im curious to know if im in the wrong or right?
I have been asking myself this question for about 3 weeks now.....why b.c my so called best friend seemed to get bored one day and make up some petty excuse to not hang out anymore. Its sad really.
So let me ask you this?
Am I totally missing something or is this not the most ridic excuse to be mad.
Not seeing a certain movie with them, even though I invinted her and she declined because she had other plans? Is this My problem or hers?
So confused. It normally wouldnt bother me b.c hey if someone doesnt want to be friends with me over something so petty then thats fine. I dont need the drama nor do i need the bullshit. But I have been friends with this person for almost 21 years now. so its just sad to me that she would just want to throw it all away and be selfish and SO RIDIC!
So I am asking you all...am I being insensitive? Should i have waited to see the movie with her and base my life around her and her plans! Should I even care at this point? I feel I did nothing wrong?
Im not one to deal with bullshit or Drama...I tend to stay far away from it. so this is just a pissing me off. I just feel like treating a friend this way is beyond me. A friend is someone who you depend on...you shouldnt have to depend on them to screw you. All advice is welcome im curious to know if im in the wrong or right?
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BestieBlog on
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Hunn you should totally try to talk to her about it because that may mean something is wrong with your freindship. |
girlygirl413 on
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Ok but what if I have already attmepted to talk to her and she wont answer my calls or return my texts? Then what am I supposed to do? I feel like I already went ahead and put in the effort to try and fix things. |
BestieBlog on
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Then I believe that she is either busy or trying to avoid you and maybe you should write her either an email, letter, or a text that explains how you feel about her doing this. Because in your own mind you believe you two are still friends so you have a right to know what is going on. |
